Monday, April 14, 2008

DOGGONE THAT DOGGONE DOG!!!


Wally's done it again.

Last night Joe came home from his dad's house. At 10:10 PM I opened the front door to let Joe in and Wally ran out. Even though me, Joe, and Paul all screamed Wally's name and "commanded" him to come back he kept on running. So, after a 3 hour trip from from Paul's house to mine, Paul, Joe and I took to the neighborhood searching for that doggone dog! We couldn't find him on foot so we took to our cars. Searching for a black/tan dog at night is not easy. Finally I catch a glimpse of Wally and as soon as I called his name he bolted! Doggone that doggone dog. Meanwhile Paul is searching in his car and Joe is at home waiting by the phone in case someone captures Wally and calls to tell us they have him. It's now been an hour and still no Wally. I go back home by Joe while Paul is out searching. I'm sure after a 3-hour drive and having to get up and be to work by 6 AM he'd rather be in bed sleeping. So many thoughts are running through my head. Maybe we should give Wally up and admit we can't handle him ... why can't he learn the "come" command ... that's it we're never getting another dog ... geez, what if we don't find him tonight ... he'll be lonely and scared and hungry ... if he runs away one more time he's going back to the shelter ... oh please come home Wally ... that's it we're going back to dog school and you're going to learn your commands once and for all ... oh geez, what if he's hurt ... i miss you already Wally ... please come home ... if we take you back to the shelter you might not get another chance ... Joe is sobbing. Joe and I say some prayers for Wally.

Then I have an idea. Maybe if I go out in the back yard and sprinkle some of his favorite treats on the deck he'll smell them and come home. :) But, we have a fenced in back yard so how will he get in. Guess I'll unlatch the gate. As I start down the steps of the deck my foot slips and next thing I know I'm laying on my back looking up at the beautiful moon and stars. !!! I lay there and think ... all this for a dog. But in the midst of my emotional rollercoaster it was God's way of saying slow down, take a deep breath, and let me handle this. As I regain my composure and go limping back into the house (thankful no one saw me wipe out), Joe is on the phone saying Dad found Wally and they're on their way home. Wally comes home to hugs and kisses. All of us so thankful he's safe. Wally slinks into his crate with his tail between his legs. Paul goes home. Joe goes to bed. I grab the bottle of Ibuprofen to prevent the sore muscles I'll surely have come morning. I go limping down the hall to my bedroom holding my very sore gluteus maximus. Grass and leaves and mud (thankfully not poop) all over my sweatshirt and jeans. It's now 11:30 PM. Feels like it should be later. We're glad you're home Wally. You're ours forever. We love you, you doggone dog!!!

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Facts and Figures on Autism

This information is taken from the Autism Society of America website.

1 out of 150 children in U.S.

1 out of 90 boys

Affects four times as many boys as girls

Lifetime cost of caring for a child with autism: $3.5 to $5 million

Current annual cost to U.S.: $35 billion

Estimated annual cost by 2010: $90 billion

1.5 million Americans affected

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Spring Planting

I love flower and vegetable gardens. I've tried my hand at both and failed miserably. I love formal gardens and wildflower gardens. I love huge farmers' gardens and i love a tomato plant in a pot. I like all the tools that you use with gardening. Every spring I say this is going to be the year. I buy plants and get them planted and ......... they die. I forget to water them and they shrivel up and wither away. Sometimes I over water them. I've killed plants that have been deemed un-killable. But it doesn't stop me from wandering through the nurseries and admiring all the beautiful plants. I love to drive around the neighborhoods and see what other creations people have come up with. Maybe this will be the year I have a real garden.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Women's Retreat on Prayer

Nicolaes Maes: Old Woman Praying (Prayer Without End)
Our church is having a women's retreat coming up this fall. Our theme is Prayer. Me, my cousin, and another friend from church are going to head it up. I've never organized one before so I'm relying on the knowledge and experience of the other two. I'm enjoying it so far. I can see where it takes a lot of time and organization to make it all come together. We all have different talents so I'm sure the three of us will work well together. I just love this picture above.

Friday, April 4, 2008

Who Would Have Known ?

(click on picture for a larger view)It is also said that these fictional characters have autistic traits:
Calvin from Calvin and Hobbs.
(No wonder Ian is obsessed with that cartoon).
Lisa from the Simpsons
Mork from Mork & Mindy
Bert from Sesame Street
Mr. Spock
Data
3rd Rock From the Sun characters
Steve Urkel
Joon from Benny and Joon
Edward Scissorhands
Rain Man
... and more

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

World Autism Day

I celebrate this day in honor of my family and friends with autism:
Ian
Karrington
Karly
Josh
Joshua
Andria
Chelsea
David
Michael
Paul
God has made each one of you special. You all teach me so much about life. I love each and every one of you.
I'd also like to thank all the educators who have worked with Ian, but especially:
Mrs. Dyer
Ms. Bowman
Mrs. Wagner
You have gone above and beyond the call of duty. There will always be a special place in my heart for you.
You have touched our lives forever.

Monday, March 31, 2008

Forgiveness

I was recently hurt by some people I love dearly. When it happened, my chest physically ached. I cried. I was also very angry at them. But these people do not even know how deeply hurt and disappointed their words made me feel.

Last Sunday we celebrated the resurrection of Jesus. Jesus suffered and died on the cross for the fogiveness of my sins. I need to forgive the people who hurt me ... "and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us" ...
One of my favorite songs:

Amazing Love
Words & Music by Billy James Foote©1997 worshiptogether.com Songs / Administered by EMI Christian Music Publishing
I’m forgiven because You were forsaken.
I’m accepted. You were condemned.
I’m alive and well, Your Spirit is within me
Because You died and rose again.
Amazing love, how can it be
That you, my King would die for me?
Amazing love, I know it’s true:
It’s my joy to honor you.
In all I do I honor You.
You are my King.
You are my King.
Jesus, You are my King.
Jesus, You are my King.